Never use It is what it is
- Stop saying “it is what it is.” The expression is a mantra for losers.
- Be honest with yourself. Halfway through the tryout, you thought it wasn’t going well, so you stopped pushing yourself, didn’t you?
- “Tryouts didn’t go well because you didn’t try your hardest. You gave up mentally, so you gave up physically.”
- When you fail, figure out why ?
- It’s my fault. It’s always my fault—thats way I am in control.